When I finally got around to leaving London escorts, I soon hooked up with a guy who played golf at the golf club I worked at. He was a really lovely guy and we started going out. After a couple of months, he asked me to move in with him, and that I gladly did. I had not been very lucky in love when I worked for London escorts and it was nice to date a guy who was just ordinary apart from owning his own company and living in a very nice house.
Some of the girls I used to work with at the sexy London escorts were really jealous of me, and I did realise I was lucky. I thought it best not to say anything about London escorts, so I made up this story about having worked in a club just like I had done on the CV for my golf club job. My partner did not suspect a thing, and we were rather happy together at first.
But now things have changed, and I can see why so many of my partner’s relationship have failed. The truth is that he is really bossy and is what I would have called a domineering man at London escorts. He wants things done his way and it is really beginning to annoy me. Fortunately my work with London escorts made me rather tough, and I can normally put him in his place. He is that kind of guy who needs a little bit of retraining as I like to say.
At one time, I did not think that I could take it anymore. But as I genuinely like the guy, I have started to stand up to me. When he asks me to do something related to his company, I tell him that I am his partner and not his secretary. He was a bit surprised at first, but it seems to be working. I used to do this all of the time at London escorts and I know that the only way you can deal with bullies is to stand up to them. It surprises them, but like I always said to my colleagues at London escorts, it can really help to retrain them.
Recently I have noticed that his attitude is beginning to change a lot. He is now making me coffees and have stopped asking me to do stuff that relates to his work. I have even managed to get a lady to help me around the house a little bit. I told him that I wanted to spend more time with him, and I could not do that when I had all of this housework to do. He was really surprised, but guess what, he is learning how to be a good boy. It is amazing the tricks that you can find in the back of your mind. Even he knew that I used to help out a dominatrix, I think he would not really be that surprised at all!
The way we look at relationships and deal with them has certainly changed a lot in the last ten years. When I joined London escorts about 11 years ago, no gent that I dated was interesting in keeping in touch online. You met up with them when they came to London, and that was it. Now, they all want to keep in touch with us girls here at London escorts online when they are out on time. It is like you are being more and more removed from genuine human relationships.
Saying that, I should be better at handling this than any of the other girls at the escort agency. I have always been very active online, and about ten years ago, I met this really lovely man in a chat room. We have never met, but it very much feels like we are having a relationship. As a matter of fact, it is the only relationship that I have with a man outside of escorts in London. Most of the girls that I work with at London escorts think that it is weird that I feel close to this guy on the other side of the Atlantic.
Our relationship may not be a physical one, but that does not make it any more real. If he does not call me, I worry about him, and the other way around as well. The great thing is that I can chat to him after I come off my shift at London escorts as he is on US time. Most of the girls that I work with at escorts in London, finish late and do not have anybody to talk to. I can just go home and switch on my computer when I want somebody to talk. It is a great feeling and just proves how important talking is in a human relationship.
Really I should take some time off from the London escorts agency and visit this guy. The only thing is that I am not sure if that is the right thing to do at all. We seem to have sort of come to terms with the fact that we should never meet, and gone beyond that. It does not make our relationship less meaningful at all. As a matter of fact, our relationship is the most important relationship that I have had with a man since joining escorts in London. Well, you could easily say that our relationship is more real than any of the relationships that I have at escorts in London.
Often when I hang up on our daily chat, I wonder where relationships are going to end up in the future. I am sure that more people than ever before are going to live as singletons, and maybe even conduct our relationships in cyberspace. Is it the right thing to do? I am not sure it is, but I do feel closer to this guy that I have met in cyberspace than any of the other guys that I hook up with on a daily basis. Do we need physical human contact? It could be something that we are even beginning to grow out of, and I do wonder what the future of physical love is.